I would have to say one of the questions I get asked most often is "So who does all the cooking at your house?" and I always struggle to answer it.
The honest answer: Andrew does - he does almost all of the cooking.
I remember in 2006 (before Andrew and I were even dating), we were just starting to strike up a friendship. We would hang out at the restaurant where we worked, at staff parties, or I would go to his place and he would cook up a storm for me. Advice to any single man: if you want to woo a girl - cook for her. If we were at work and I complained of a sore throat, Andrew would whip up a hot cup of lemon, ginger, and honey tea for me. He couldn't have been more considerate, attentive, and caring. I felt so loved.
One thought I remember verbalizing early in my relationship with Andrew, to Christina or Erin or Tess, was that "if I marry this guy...I'm going to eat like a queen for the rest of my life." I couldn't have been more right! Which brings me back to the question of who does most of the cooking in our house. I think the reason I struggle to answer it is because part of me feels guilty that I have been so blessed to not only marry one of the most caring, funny, and capable men I've ever met - but also to marry a chef! I'll be the first to admit that I am spoiled rotten when it comes to meals, and for that I am forever grateful. When I answer the question, I normally follow up with "but I'm a really good dishwasher/helper/eater". Which are all very true statements.
Now this whole 'chef at home' thing is a bit of a double-edged sword, because my repertoire of recipes is not as vast as I would like it to be. Don't get me wrong, I do help out. I can fend for myself when Andrew is not home, and would consider myself to have more culinary knowledge than the average person, but I would like to know and do more. The following is a list of cooking/baking duties I am awesome at:
- Making coffee in the morning
- Making granola
- Spooning out yogurt
- Baking cookies, chocolate cake, scones etc.
- Making a mean batch of popcorn
- Cutting up any kind of vegetable or fruit
- Making a vinaigrette/dressing
- Making grilled cheese
- Following a recipe
- Sauteing onions
- Did I mention doing dishes?!
I have learned so many skills and tricks from my handy husband. As much as I love being cooked for, this year I am hoping to take a more active role in meal-planning and preparation, and hope to document some of that journey here.
To conclude: Andrew, I love you so much. Thank you for everything you do.
Never ever leave me because I would starve to death.
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